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Post by mudvayne8megan on Oct 30, 2007 6:25:05 GMT -5
Maybe at like lunchtime or a break you can take him away and talk to him one on one? Or would that be to much towards him. Good luck with this hun, im sure everything will work out for sure. Kathy, Kim and i are always here for advice....as is the whole pit  |
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Post by happy on Oct 30, 2007 9:38:06 GMT -5
thank u very much =) i apreciate it  um i dont know if it would be cool to talk to him like this. maybe ill try to talk to him in icq.. its always easier if u r on the computer ;D well anyway. io got holidays at the moment so i ll wait till school starts again and if something hapens aagin it'll be time to talk to him or even her... |
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Post by mudvayne8megan on Oct 31, 2007 4:38:27 GMT -5
Oh yeah good idea. Lol you can always look back at the computer screen  |
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Post by happy on Nov 1, 2007 6:35:05 GMT -5
yesterday we were in that holiday park and she was with us...  and she really got on my nerves... i dont know if i will ever understand her... and im really confused... coz i start to ask myself if it depends on her... would i mind if she was another person ya know.... and maybe im just so jealous of her... i dont know and its driving me mad  am i the one to blame... ahh im really dunno... im not feelin good.... and now she started to kiss the drummer of his band yesterday.. and it seems like she just wants to impress that otrher guy coz after she had kissed the drummer she was like " we arent a couple now. this was just 4 fun"... oh cool no he thinks they are a couple and is in luv with her and she just pretends.. awesome taht really fits her  i just hate everything about it right now... shes just so fake... shes not beeing herself and i ahte that... but i dont wanna stop goping out with ma friends coz of her.. i hope she wont be with us so often in future and then yesterday she comes to me and was like "i luv ya" and i said if u luv me then i do so as well... but my opinion chnaged very fast again.. i dont know anything anymore unless that shes a fake person i just cant trust and its driving me insane |
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Post by Kim on Nov 1, 2007 6:43:44 GMT -5
just be honest with yourself and others. tell her you need a break from her (put it nicer than that if you want!), and then you can assess how you feel about everything.
I had a friend once that was an on/off again stripper, and strippers tend to start using not just men, but women, for favors and money, outside of their work. it becomes a habit for them. she didn't get past the 8th grade in her education. she loved drama. oh, she would never say that she did, but she naturally attracted it. I hate drama, always have, so it got to be where I didn't want to be around her and her bullshit. she got knocked up by some 37 yr old black guy with no job, did the smart thing and got an abortion, then less than a year later she hooked up with an old ex, got pregnant by him, ended up keeping it. after i heard about her getting pregnant a second time, i'd had enough. it just so happened that I was moving at the time, so I stopped returning her calls, and she never found out where I'd moved to. she left several long messages on my cell phone, but eventually those stopped too. I felt as if a weight had been lifted off of my shoulders.
you might feel the same way if you stopped hanging around this girl. just tell her the truth and walk away. don't feel guilty, friends can grow apart. it's unhealthy to be so stressed out about how another person acts around you. save it for important stuff--tests, your love life, etc.
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Post by happy on Nov 1, 2007 12:44:08 GMT -5
hm i cant just stop beeing around her... shes in my class.. so im seeing her evry day... 2nd problem is that we both are friends with this guy...( and hes a good friend. never wanna lose him) and so we also have other common friends.. which sux and i just hate taht shes so fake and cant stand it and everything confusese me so probably u r right kim and i should just try 2 stay away from her but i cant.. i just cant... coz im forced to see her everyday.. and im also forced to speak to her coz we are around each other coz of same friends and this is driving me mad.. plus i just cant talk to her... shes nobody u could talk with easily about problems so ig ot a problem... its got a huge problem... i think im just gonna move as well maybe to australia where she'll never find me  a fight would be the best thing that could hapen right now.. so if she was angry she would at least leave me alone but she wont do this.. so that the hardest..=( thx 4 listening... bye jana |
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Post by mudvayne8megan on Nov 4, 2007 3:57:54 GMT -5
YES! Come to australia hahaha she'll never find you.
Good advice Kim!!
I went go-karting yesterday it was so much fun
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Post by shroomfairy on Nov 4, 2007 11:46:34 GMT -5
It's a lazy day! Yay!
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Post by Kim on Nov 4, 2007 12:44:29 GMT -5
With the weather being so nice, I decided to detail the inside of my car, then I'm going to take it thru the car wash, take a shower, find Aj's birthday present (it's tomorrow!), then go to dinner with him and his parents. Busy day!
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Post by mudvayne8megan on Nov 5, 2007 1:36:22 GMT -5
Wow, also sounds like quite a fun day to Kim.
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Post by Kim on Nov 5, 2007 7:03:05 GMT -5
But ohhhh, Megan, I had the BEST fried grouper filet I've EVER had! So flaky and tender....It was huge too! And the steamed, seasoned, buttered green beans were delicious too.
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Post by mudvayne8megan on Nov 7, 2007 5:49:43 GMT -5
Yuuuuuuuuum Please tell me there were chips? Lol fish and chips are the greatest down at the beaches here in australia you guys gotta try it ONE day So where was this great meal Kim? |
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Post by Kim on Nov 7, 2007 7:13:09 GMT -5
I've been trying to stay away from potatoes until I see my doctor about my kidneys (potatoes=potassium, not good for kidneys). Normally I would have had fries (you call them chips).
Actually, it was at a really nice restaruant called Lee Roy Selmon's, that mostly caters to the sports crowd (flat screen tv's tuned into various football games everywhere). I was so surprised to get such a good piece of fish from that place. But it was KILLER! lol
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Post by hvymtlmom on Nov 7, 2007 18:01:23 GMT -5
Thanks Kim, that's good to know. Not for me of course, but for my dad...he's somewhat of a grouper connoisseur. Everywhere he goes in FL he has to try the fried grouper! I'll have him check that place out next time he's in Tampa...or maybe he already has LOL
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Post by Kim on Nov 7, 2007 19:11:31 GMT -5
There are restaurants in Tampa and St. Pete. The rest of their menu is excellent too. You should tell him there are a couple of seafood festivals going on north of my area, in Hudson. They specialize in grouper! Cooked any way you want. Entry is free, but parking is $3 (so, not free). Starts Friday night, runs through Sunday afternoon.
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am i the one to blame... ahh im really dunno... im not feelin good....
