happy
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Post by happy on Apr 1, 2008 7:45:24 GMT -5
well yeah its my body but my body is also his  ^^ |
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Post by hvymtlmom on Apr 1, 2008 12:09:23 GMT -5
The blackmail thing bothers me....like if he can force you out of doing a piercing that you want, what else is he going to try to make you do? You should put your foot down and do what YOU want to do. Later if YOU (and only YOU) decide you don't like it, you can always take it out.
Besides, maybe the other girl was just a bad kisser? LOL
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Post by angel on Apr 1, 2008 16:57:17 GMT -5
The blackmail thing bothers me....like if he can force you out of doing a piercing that you want, what else is he going to try to make you do? You should put your foot down and do what YOU want to do. Later if YOU (and only YOU) decide you don't like it, you can always take it out. Besides, maybe the other girl was just a bad kisser? LOL Yeah what mom said. It always pisses me of when guys think they can just go and decide things for you. If you are gonna let him decide this for you ,whats gonna be next.....? You have to do what you wanna do. and he has to fucking deal with that and accept that you are your own person. |
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Post by lauren on Apr 1, 2008 18:18:36 GMT -5
I think it's good to take into consideration the person you love's opinion, but, like the others said, it is ultimately your decision. My boyfriend didn't want me to get a tattoo down by my hip/crotch are (his ex had one there, bad memories) but I didn't want him to get a tribal tattoo and we finally agreed that if he was ok with me getting one down there, I'd be ok with him getting a tribal - so long as they're in good taste and we approve each tat. We both have to look at each other for the rest of our lives so it's important to us that we like each other's tattoos, we don't have to love them but at least like them. |
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happy
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Post by happy on Apr 4, 2008 9:19:45 GMT -5
well i always wanted to be that independent but now that i got a bf its just not that easy... he always changes his mind anyway,.. so last time i mentioned the piercing thing he was like well go for it... i dont care...^^
its just that there are thinggs that I dont want him to do... so if i dont do something because he dont want it then he has to leave something if i dont want it,... you know what i mean...? i think you just have to try to respect each other but u have also to do compromise if u are a couple...
yeah the girl probably was a bad kisser xD
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Post by hvymtlmom on Apr 4, 2008 16:03:34 GMT -5
yes compromise is very important as long as it's not just disguised as a control issue and as long as it doesn't keep you from being yourself...and him from being himself
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Post by mudvayne8megan on Apr 6, 2008 5:14:05 GMT -5
Just get percings for yourself.
You'll see it more than anyone else, and you have to go through the healing process and all that jazz.
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happy
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Post by happy on Apr 7, 2008 8:11:30 GMT -5
well i respect his opinion and stuff... so i think both partners should agree if one makes a descission... i dont think u should call it controlling u just do something 4 the one u love and he does sth 4 u... i am ok with how it is...
so for example zhe wants to get a snake but i hate em and i would hate it if he had one.. so he dont get one and i am happy about it so i do sth 4 him as well..
but btw... he admitted that he only told me that kissing with the piercing is annoying coz he didnt want me to do it.. ;D now its up to me... i think i'll go for one soon...
and compromise or whatever.. i think i am gonna do the things i want to do anyway anytime...)=)
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Post by mudvayne8megan on Apr 10, 2008 4:13:21 GMT -5
So where abouts on your lip do you want?
Side or labret?
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happy
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Post by happy on Apr 14, 2008 13:54:13 GMT -5
hmmm i thought about that a long time... some special rings look very cool in the middle but i think the site will look better... so i'll go 4 one on the site... looks good on me i think...
now LISTEN!!! a few days ago my bf comes to me and is like "hey i thought i may get a piercing on my lip!!!" and i was like haha ok... so i'll do it on the left site and he on the right site.. so it isnt annoying while kissing... but maybe i'll get another piercing on the other site of the lip too... that looks pretty cool... it just annoys me that everyone thinks u are an emo if u got 2 piercings on the lip...
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Post by mudvayne8megan on Apr 15, 2008 8:30:33 GMT -5
lol 'everyone' think you are emo if you slip on one item of black
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Post by Candle on Apr 17, 2008 15:18:40 GMT -5
...  as Basic Black is the staple of much of the professional's working wardrobe (at least in the Northeast urban publishing scene!), that certainly explains alot of the behaviour around here! Ok, maybe this isn't Random Shit, but the inclusion of this news story *is* ironic--and Mudvayne oriented-- news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20080417/ts_alt_afp/ussciencelorenz_080417144725The video for Happy is founded on this man's idea of the Butterfly Effect--and I believe that Ryan (attempts to) explains it in his Toazted.com interview. |
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Post by stallan on May 3, 2008 9:17:18 GMT -5
Due to hungoverness and ear infection I am missing the Weed March. Fuckin 'ell.
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Post by herleker on May 3, 2008 19:43:44 GMT -5
weed march?
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Post by stallan on May 3, 2008 21:26:29 GMT -5
Basically weed is legal for one day in Queen's Park in Toronto.
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as Basic Black is the staple of much of the professional's working wardrobe (at least in the Northeast urban publishing scene!), that certainly explains alot of the behaviour around here!
