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Post by Matt - Eoattc on Apr 12, 2007 2:20:21 GMT -5
I can tell you that i feel the same man... There's a girl that i can't forget about... We were on dates and things, kissing and stuff and now it's like nothing, we don't even send any sms to each other, i felt like dying is the only way out, it's like you but hell, im 19 years old and whole life straight ahead! Maybe she will understand that i always were beside here, always to help even if i wasn't just there - i was missing and thinking about her, she knows it, i told her it... It's like a story without ending, never felt to ask about US, always something was going into way, always something have been thrown under my legs and i was slipping and slipping. Today half of me feels really bad and other half is strong and i just want her to be happy, if she gonna be happy with someone else it's great, i will never think that i want her to be unhappy if she isn't with me... She's a great person, my friend and i'll just see how the things will make, i'll see her tommorow and other days too.
If the things are going worse and worse, maybe just go to Kathryn and tell her everything? Man I never couldn't do that don't make that mistake, please..... I regret it every single day.
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Post by Matt - Eoattc on Apr 12, 2007 10:09:17 GMT -5
After all...... we are not fucking falling RIGHT!!
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Post by guest on Apr 12, 2007 17:08:12 GMT -5
no... i've fallen.. hard... she isn't confused anymore... i talked to her... we ended up arguing over some stupid shit... i don't know what to think anymore... can't fucking wait till i'm gone.... i'm basically only living for her but it's the same deal with her.... she won't let me help though...... or at least she won't take it when i offer... i don't know.....  |
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Post by Matt - Eoattc on Apr 12, 2007 17:48:13 GMT -5
oh damn...
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Post by guest on Apr 12, 2007 18:20:03 GMT -5
yeah... dilemna doesn't even begin to describe it.
it's been on my mind all day...
my eyes show it too... people at school noticed....
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Post by mudvayner on Apr 12, 2007 19:48:53 GMT -5
Man that sounds so fucked up..I hope you can fix your problems with her..
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Post by guest on Apr 12, 2007 19:56:58 GMT -5
i hope so to.. all i can do at this point is be a friend.......
i don't know whether to smile because she's my friend or cry because that's all we'll ever be...
i'm just gonna try to guide her through her problems right now.../
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Post by hvymtlmom on Apr 12, 2007 20:17:44 GMT -5
I know I'm really late with this Vince....my computer time has been limited lately and I hadn't been able to catch up with all of the threads on here...I have to tell you that this thread was a great idea  As to the situation on hand: If all she wants is a friend now, then be there for her and she will see that you really care. Sometimes things move too quickly and people get scared. Just make the best of the situation and wait it out as friends. It doesn't mean that's all you'll ever be, if it was meant to be more then maybe it will be somewhere down the road. But for now, take it as it is...difficult as it may be. Problems in relationships often aren't anybody's "fault". Things just come out into the open that hadn't before. If the "fault" was you being yourself, than there is no one to blame. People who change to fit another person's expectations often end up bitter and angry over the loss of themselves. *HUGS* |
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Post by hvymtlmom on Apr 12, 2007 20:29:08 GMT -5
Sorry to hear about your situation as well Matt. It's such a shame that everyone can't just be honest in a relationship....without mind games. I guess it's fear of opening up and possibility that the other person doesn't feel the same, or is afraid to admit that they do feel the same.
What you said about wanting her to be happy reminded me of Black by Pearl Jam...
Of course I'm not saying that there is no hope for your relationship. You shouldn't give up on it...just see where it goes-and I hope it's in the direction that you want it to!
*HUGS*
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Post by guest on Apr 12, 2007 20:59:12 GMT -5
I know I'm really late with this Vince....my computer time has been limited lately and I hadn't been able to catch up with all of the threads on here...I have to tell you that this thread was a great idea As to the situation on hand: If all she wants is a friend now, then be there for her and she will see that you really care. Sometimes things move too quickly and people get scared. Just make the best of the situation and wait it out as friends. It doesn't mean that's all you'll ever be, if it was meant to be more then maybe it will be somewhere down the road. But for now, take it as it is...difficult as it may be. Problems in relationships often aren't anybody's "fault". Things just come out into the open that hadn't before. If the "fault" was you being yourself, than there is no one to blame. People who change to fit another person's expectations often end up bitter and angry over the loss of themselves. *HUGS* She already has realized that I care. very much.. I can think of one reason that she'd be scared... That could be part of it... but yesterday wasn't a good day... bad argument and i was stupid and insensitive.... not the first time i've made that mistake... I doubt we'll be more than friends... i can think of one reason she'd be afraid too... but yes it's all at least half my fault... we were out in the open with each other (and we still are)... things are changing though... and yesterday she said she wanted things to be back the way they were between the two of us.... i am losing so much hope/ |
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Post by guest on Apr 12, 2007 22:18:19 GMT -5
i just got back stabbed by my only friend at school... again...
this is lke the fucking 5000th time.
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Post by hvymtlmom on Apr 12, 2007 22:37:37 GMT -5
Dude, you are not having a very good week! And your friend dosent sound like a very good friend to me.....real friends don't stab each other in the back  |
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Post by guest on Apr 12, 2007 22:49:13 GMT -5
Real friends stab you in the front...
this is more than just a bad week
edit- i was presumed dead today oh how i wish that'd been true
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Post by guest on Apr 14, 2007 22:45:43 GMT -5
I got called up to the counselor's office two days in a row because people thought I was going to kill myself....even if... not like i'd tell them.
I found an interesting quote yesterday: "At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet." - Plato.
I really liked it.
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Post by Ginelly on Apr 15, 2007 8:48:37 GMT -5
Kathy, I know I've said this before but I will say it again- you'd make a good psychologist  |
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